Unfortunate Phrase

I am probably being way too hypersensitive here, but this bothered me. Last week I was dealing with some of the school issues that needed to be taken care of. The person with whom I was dealing wanted to know something about the KoD. Instead of asking me about my husband, he asked about my “current husband”. Now, we all know this is my second marriage. We all know we have been married for about 18 months. But what part of that screams “temporary”? None of it.

You wouldn’t say “current wife or husband” to someone who has been married for 20 years, now, would you? So why refer to the KoD as my current husband. Indeed he is current, but he is permanent.

Just needed to get that off my chest