what 'memory keeper' are you creating for your children to make Rosh Hashana special and looked forward to? this is what keeps our children connected !
i think that the best thing to do for our children is to open thier eyes and feed their curiosity-to this day ALL my kids (even the marrieds), love seeing the big fish head on the table, and enjoy the whole 'dipping' shpiel. but when they were younger, they would each get a chance to stand up on a chair and sing a song about rosh hashana or show thier homemade honey dish. we need to involve them