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Pamela Druckerman's new book "Bringing Up Bebe," catalogs her observations about why French children seem so much better behaved than their American counterparts.
When my daughter was 18 months old, my husband and I decided to take her on a little summer holiday. We picked a coastal town that's a few hours by train from Paris, where we were living (I'm American, he's British), and booked a hotel room with a crib. Bean, as we call her, was our only child at this point, so forgive us for thinking: How hard could it be?
We ate breakfast at the hotel, but we had to eat lunch and dinner at the little seafood restaurants around the old port. We quickly discovered that having two restaurant meals a day with a toddler deserved to be its own circle of hell.
Bean would take a brief interest in the food, but within a few minutes she was spilling salt shakers and tearing apart sugar packets. Then she demanded to be sprung from her high chair so she could dash around the restaurant and bolt dangerously toward the docks.
Read the rest: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970204740904577196931457...
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Permalink Reply by Hannah Toledano on February 9, 2012 at 9:58am Very interesting article. I think the difference stands in the way of seeing education.
American parents will seek help raising their child as soon as they are born when French will just say no and let a baby cry.
Both ways give the parents some time for themselves - something you desperatly need when you have a child. But American children don't learn what it means that something is not granted to them which causes more problem on the long term.
Personaly I'm not a big fan of the American way of education, I think the children don't have enough respect for adults
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